Here's another site that makes you wonder if it's real or fake:
Philanderers.com. It's a service to help people who are married have extramarital affairs. My first thought was that it was a joke. But upon looking around it for a while, it appears legitimate. I wonder if any single people use this who want to have an affair with someone who's married? And here's an evil thought: if you ever try to cancel your membership, they could threaten to tell your spouse.
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Bottom line, if you have to pay, its a scam.
I dont doubt that alot of the profiles are fake. I also would agree that some of the real profiles are call girls/dating services looking to make a buck.
But with patience I have met some woman that were real and pleasant to be with. Any dating service of this type one always has to go in with eyes wide open.
I would use it again for I think its the best and most legit service out there of this type
Almost immediately I received a collect message from
The $50 was for a number of charges including receiving the IMs from these two women "collect" "priority replies" (what is a priority reply anyway?), my IMs, and other stuff I didn't understand. So you see Mr. Doubter you don't have all the info. What I did get, by the way, was nothing for something!
I did call their customer support. The woman who spoke to me was very skilled at saying things to get me to reengage in their fraud and spend more money. When I explained that her company sends out fake IMs, she said she did not know if that was true or not. You see, they avoid confirming OR denying that they do this.
Apparently they are trying to "fly under the radar" by doing just enough to defraud us but not enough to get serious attention from any legal authority. So it goes. Of course we can bring more attention to them.
I plan to report their business to the Canadian Bar Association (their owner is a lawyer), and to research and report to any government department in Canada or the USA that regulates commerce of this sort. A class action suite would be effective as it would likely force them to hand over the list of people who fall into the class which is all their customers 😊) I will see if I can interest a class action lawyer in pursuing this case. There may be some money in it for a good lawyer.
So keep posting your experiences with AM here. All the info can be used to good effect.
I too signed up for their basic package, but with the addition of the "unlimited Mobile access package" as well. As it turns out, unlimited mobile access only means you can view their mobile site as well as the regular site. Regular credit vacuuming applies, as unlimited is seriously limited. When I asked "support" about this, they said it was to pay for the development of the mobile site, which cost "millions". I know this is a lie as I am in the industry, but that's not my point.
I was also contacted "collect" by an automated troll, so thinking this wasn't a total loss, I stupidly replied, You guessed it, no further response.
So If you want to spend money to talk to a bot, or fake profile, AM is for you. If your seriously looking to meet someone... POF is a much better choice.
To the shills, my memory last much longer than your compensation for lying.
..Ex
I now have blocked any email that comes from Philanders, it's a waste of my time.
And I also believe anyone on here reporting good luck on any of these sites is a liar and working for one of the sites.
I can't get that out of my mind! LMFAO!!
"I've been using Ashley for years now and with great success and I do not have a photo posted in my ad at all, what I do have is personal content that is very specific in what and who I'm looking for." AS IF YOU WERE SPECIFIC YOU WOULD HAVE SUCCESS. YOU ARE JUST NOT USING THE SITE CORRECTLY.
"I first tried AM a couple of years ago. Sure there are plenty of fake ads of women on there. Like who the hell would be attached and put their face pic on full display?? Or why do others show their pic but seem to have that same scratched out/blacked out area on the face?? I have had success. I would say I met at least 6 women in person." IN POLITICS THIS IS CALLED NUANCE. YES THERE ARE SOME FAKES (BUT NOT POSTED BY AM IS THE IMPLICATION), BUT YOU CAN SPOT THESE.
"AM is very real. Yes, there are fake profiles, but they are so easy to sniff out. The trick to making AM work is to be patient, which is hard for us guys to do if we are horny and want immediate sex. I am a reasonably normal looking guy and I can write really well. Once every 3-4 months a woman is turned on by my profile and contacts me." AGAIN, ALL YOU NEED TO DO IS THIS AND YOU WILL HAVE SUCCESS. BE PERSISTENT. SPEND MORE MONEY FOR 3-4 MONTHS.
SOOOO ... GET IT? THE TONE IS REASONABLE. SUGGESTIONS ARE MADE TO HELP YOU HAVE SUCCESS. IT IS ADMITTED THAT THERE ARE FAKE PROFILES, BUT !NEVER! THAT ASHLEY MADISON POSTS THEM. AND BY THE WAY, WHEN I TALKED TO THEIR CUSTOMER SERVICE REP AND POINTED OUT THAT AM POSTS FAKE PROFILES SHE SAID THAT SHE DID NOT KNOW IF THAT WAS TRUE OR NOT!!!! A MEANS OF AVOIDING THE ARGUMENT. SHE TALKED TO ME AS A MEANS OF GETTING ME TO SPEND MORE MONEY.
THE ARE CLEVER, DECEPTIVE, AND COMPLETELY FRAUDULENT. THEIR CON IS CAREFULLY THOUGHT OUT WITH LOTS OF LAYERS. BUT IT IS A CON!!! DON'T BE FOOLED. CAUSE WORSE THAN THE LOSS OF YOUR MONEY, YOU WILL FEEL VERY FOOLISH. I DID.
The review sites are very clever as well. Kind of a "Witness for the Prosecution" thing if you know the movie. Wives who protest on such sites that they caught their husbands cheating via AM. You'd never see such outrage on a fake review site, or would you?
What I wonder about is where they get all the female pics for their fake profiles? And how do these women feel about being graphical pawns in a major scam.
Ekaterina Gheorghiu is a cheating gypsy, you can bet.
I would love to meet the guy, just to see what kind of a lowlife scammer he is. What kind of mind thinks up this stuff?
So, is it a scam? Absolutely. Be careful out there.
For me, I tried it and it doesn't work 😉
Do you work for AM by the way?
Take that B.O.B and stick it up your ass- you fake idiot!
They will harass and threaten you like school yard bullies. That there should give you insight on the type of people who frequent the website. Also, Leigh has written some posts about herself being obese and handicapped and so are many of her women "friends' there. If you are looking for quality, you will be disappointed. Beware, like a poster before me warned, there are alot of headcases on the site.
If you don't want personal info spread to others, avoid it like the plague.
I haven't had the energy or time to deal with all their crap on other sites (maybe I will soon). Here we get notices of posts which makes our replies more efficient. Perhaps this is why AM has abandoned their efforts to seduce us on this site? (like Krystal who was one of their fake posts).