father of missing child Haleigh Cummings’ married his 17-year-old-girlfriend - why?
Posted: 13 March 2009 03:06 AM   [ Ignore ]
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Though I haven’t really been following this story at all, I did find some issues curious though not necessarily inflamatory.
I watched the video here which does incorporate notes as the interview progressed.  Some of the notations suggest ideas that I may not agree with, yet others I do find uncomfortable.  The article below is today’s news (actually the first article I’ve read concerning this family).  I have not otherwise seen or read anything else about the missing child. 

I AM reminded that a spouse does not have to testify against the other spouse….which does make the timing of the marriage suspicious perhaps but I’ll leave this to the authorities. 

I believe we all know how locked doors get open (without being picked), and I will admit that nearly every time I go out our front door I prop it open just in case it closes (I got locked out once that way and had to climb up onto the deck after stacking stuff from the backyard to climb upon).  So, I’m also curious about both being interviewed never suggesting any other way to open the back door except by ‘picking the lock’.

VIDEO with notations - Haleigh Cummings’ father, Ronald Cummings’ Interview by Greta Van Susteren

http://www.cnn.com/2009/CRIME/03/12/haleigh.father.married/index.html

The father of missing child Haleigh Cummings’ married his 17-year-old-girlfriend, who was the last one known to have seen the child alive, the girl’s grandmother told Nancy Grace producers.

On Sunday Ronald Cummings asked his teenage girlfriend, Misty Croslin, for her hand in marriage at a local Chili’s restaurant. While he was with several family members, Cummings got down on one knee, asked Croslin to marry him and gave her Haleigh’s grandmother’s diamond ring.

Because Croslin is only 17-years-old, her mother filled out the paperwork so the two could be married.

And on Thursday, the pair tied the knot, after the three day waiting period required by Florida law.

Croslin, who was beaming earlier in the week after the engagement, told CNN affiliate WJXT-TV that while she knows there will be critics about the marriage and the timing, “everything is still about Haleigh.”

Croslin said she wanted to be together as a family, just as Haleigh would have wanted.

“Everybody is probably going to take this marriage thing the wrong way,” Croslin told WJXT. “This is what Haleigh wanted. She has always talked about it, and even if she’s not with us, she is still with us.”

Croslin told police said she tucked Haleigh and her 4-year-old brother into bed about 8 p.m. February 9 in their Satsuma, Florida, home. She said she went to sleep herself about 10 p.m. but woke at 3 a.m. to find Haleigh missing and a back door propped open by bricks.

Police are still actively searching for the girl, with a new search happening this week, and investigators Wednesday took the back door that was found propped open.

In the middle of the search for the girl, the newlyweds will fly to New York Thursday night for their honeymoon and an exclusive appearance on the Today show.

Haleigh’s grandmother, Teresa Neves, also acknowledged the timing might seem “unusual.”

“Well it is unusual for some onlookers but those people didn’t live with my two grandchildren,” she told Nancy Grace. “My grandchildren, both Haleigh and Junior, have very often said that they would love for their daddy to marry Misty and that they wanted Misty to be their mommy. And so I feel like they are just trying to fulfill a wish for Haleigh so that when she comes home she will have that extra happiness to come home to.”
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Before the wedding, Neves told CNN affiliate WKMG-TV the wedding would be difficult without Haleigh.

“It’s an event that Haleigh really should be at, but when she comes home, we’ll have a great big wedding so she can be the flower girl and see it all again,” Neves said.

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Posted: 13 March 2009 07:05 AM   [ Ignore ]   [ # 1 ]
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Some of the comments were silly.  The “A/C” guy…also fixes heaters.  The vast majority of homes in Florida have central heat & air.  In the same unit.  If it was 57 degrees out…they may have noticed a problem with service & called on it.

I don’t think the bed apart issue was really what they made it out to be.  She clearly said 3 or 4 at first…but didn’t seem to give a unit of measure…so the interviewer tried to clarify…but she should have used an open ended question instead.  If I asked my husband which side of the bed he thought I was on..he would know without having been there.

The “conflicting stories” about standing at the front door & opening the front door don’t really seem like much of an issue to me.  Either way, she was at the door…

The girl did look down & to the side a few times…that is a sign of searching your brain for an answer…so those statements could be determined as deceptive.

I haven’t really heard much on the case…but I find it a little creepy that her name is Haleigh…and there is the ongoing Kaleigh Anthony case .

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And is there any cause why these two should not be married?
::stands up, points:: He’s a wanker!  She’s a robot.

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Posted: 13 March 2009 07:35 AM   [ Ignore ]   [ # 2 ]
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People do strange things during times of high stress.  Who knows what’s going on in these peoples’ minds?

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Posted: 13 March 2009 03:34 PM   [ Ignore ]   [ # 3 ]
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I thought it was interesing that the 17 year-old kept referring to the little girl in the past tense, such as saying that getting married is what she would have wanted, as if she knows the kid won’t be coming back. It’s a big contrast with the grandmother talking about Haleigh in the future tense (when she comes home). Now, I’m no detective but I have seen enough true crime A&E documentaries to know that might be a red flag. But like I said, I’m no detective. (although I did want to be one for a long time when I was a teenager)

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Posted: 13 March 2009 08:21 PM   [ Ignore ]   [ # 4 ]
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I also don’t think the 17 yr old has a fantastic grammatical sense.

‘would have wanted’ could be present tense to her…

I always think the past/present tense thing is weird.  Even with my husband alive, but out of the state, I refer to him A LOT in the past tense.  “He liked to watch movies.”  Why?  Cuz it’s not happening RIGHT NOW.  There’s no reference for the statement for this moment in time.  He DID like to watch moves…the last time he was able to watch.  Does he now?  It’s only been about 3 weeks…but he might have changed his mind.

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And is there any cause why these two should not be married?
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